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Shenzhen PhotoBlog #2: Masks, Moking and Metropolises
August 9, 2010I have now been in China for 23 weeks, dangerously close to 6 months. In that time, I have become another year older. Moved into my own apartment. Picked up some, but not enough of the language. “Popped Over” to Hong Kong approximately 6 times. Hosted a house party. Entered a team in a football tournament. Sent zips to Melbourne, New York and Port Louis in Mauritius. And at least 100 times, I have been in a lift where the topic of conversation has been me!
Playing football has been a great way to meet people out here. Football is strangely effective at creating a bond between men. We might speak different languages, work in different industries and be of different generations… but on the football pitch, all men are equal.
All smiles BEFORE the kick off of a 5 hour-long football tournament… culminating in us finishing 6th or 7th.. out of 7 teams!!! Maybe all men aren’t quite so equal after all!
Cycling really allows you to get under the skin of any city. I love my fixie, and so long as there isn’t a typhoon going on outside, I will try to cycle to my chosen destination in Shenzhen. But I wouldn’t dream of doing it without a mask to stave off the pollution. The above pic shows my old filter compared with the new one… thankfully all that crap is not in my lungs.
Yep, I am to China, what Simon Cowell is to the UK and America. But seriously, this was an experience… the most amusing part perhaps being when the Canadian host announced: “it’s not the winning that matters, it is the taking part.” When this was translated, I’m sure that I heard disapproving mutterings coming from the kids’ parents!
Young Chinese Girls (capitalised on purpose), have an obsession with taking photos – usually of themselves, usually attempting a seductive pose… and almost always displaying the two finger peace sign salute. If the picture being taken is in a group, those fingers will still come out – as yet, no one has explained any of this to me. Anyway, these are the Chinese Teachers from my school, at my house to celebrate the end of summer camp.
I had a house-warming party, where I think the most people in the house at any one time was about 40. The party taught me this: Chinese people don’t understand what a party is. More than 5 different people told me that it was their first ever house party. Someone asked if they had to pay to get in. Someone else asked if we were going to watch a movie. And absolutely no-one could understand why I was not going to provide dinner!!!
The previous two photos were taken in my new apartment. This one, (the pool) is from my old apartment complex – which served me very well indeed. My new complex has a pool, though not quite so picturesque. However, it has a football pitch, which is much more exciting!
So whilst playing around with my waterproof camera – this photo materialised. Apparently showing me with slanted eyes…
Almost without fail, every single sign in China that is written in English, has some sort of grammatical or other error. This particular one, I found in the office of an estate agent. Note: Estate agents are bastards no matter what country you are in.
“I would rather cry in the back of a BMW than laugh on the back of a bicycle”
June 22, 2010As previously stated, whilst living in China, you really do come across something “blog-worthy” on a daily basis. Why then do I post my blogs so erratically and intermittently? … I’m a busy man! Today however, I was reading the Shenzhen Daily (English language newspaper), and came across an article that simply had to be brought to the attention of the wider world.
In short, a dating show has been shut down by SARFT (State Administration of Radio, Film and TV). Since first airing at the beginning of this year, “If You’re the One” became China’s most popular tv programme. As far as I can gather 24 women put a guy on trial, one at a time to see whether he is worthy of their affections. There is something to do with lights being switched on and/or off, and I think there might even be a date at the end!
Anyway, the state has stepped in because there have been a series of scandals including ‘aggressive language’, sex photos and of course the young lady from Beijing who made the declaration that has become the title of this blog post. The wider implications of this sentiment are quite startling. I had first hand experience this money-driven psyche last week, when, in conversation with a YCG (Young Chinese Girl !!!), she stated that she would never consider dating a man who earned less than her. When I pushed and asked: what if he was the nicest guy in the world, almost a saint, was your “soul mate”, etc. etc.? …She stood firm and maintained that his salary must be higher than hers.
Plenty more to say on this and other topics.. and plenty of pictures/news to update you with – but for now, that’s all folks. I’ll leave you to ponder.